Isn't it normal to be unpredictable..

As human beings, we despise chaos. We want circumstances, relationships, others and ourselves(!) to be stable, consistent, predictable.
But I wonder, what if it's not possible. What if change really is the only constant.

I was talking to a friend, and suddenly he said,
                       "Life is always wanting balance.
                   If you attain balance, it will disturb that too,
                        and then you need a new balance.

  So, there is no fixed balance as such, it keep changing

  It may have served you to have certain constraints in the past

  It maybe now time to loosen some

  and then get back some others, to get to a new equilibrium"